Heard you mentioned to me abt it last nite at Swenson's, but I din probe further. So u finally set your mind to it? Missy will probably shout:你截我糊 !!!
Well, you may think 2 mths is too long for you, but as a过来人, I may be able to share my experience with you. When I decide to go, it was ard 1 & 1/2 mths away from my last day. But I think of it as allowing myself more time to "办理后事" (ie settle all my pending work stuff, and file all work things properly for the new person to refer when taking over). I'll treasure my time more with the frens in the company. It's also time for me to plan what I'm gonna do after i resign & start thinking of what my next carrer prospects are.
Though my final weeks were tough times, I still feel glad to have this ample time to do most of the things. So, in the end, it's not that long after all. If u still find it too long, you can use ya leave to offset it.
而且真的如您所说，我需要一段时间来理清很多东西。先不要说后事，前事我都还没搞定呢！我觉得有一点很重要的是，我们要时常 keep our mind open，不管是留还是走，最好给自己多一些 time allowance 考虑清楚，总之就是要 be mentally prepared 和把眼睛擦亮亮衡量天时地利人和之因素吧。
Dear Guye sama,
ReplyDeleteHeard you mentioned to me abt it last nite at Swenson's, but I din probe further. So u finally set your mind to it? Missy will probably shout:你截我糊 !!!
Well, you may think 2 mths is too long for you, but as a过来人, I may be able to share my experience with you. When I decide to go, it was ard 1 & 1/2 mths away from my last day. But I think of it as allowing myself more time to "办理后事" (ie settle all my pending work stuff, and file all work things properly for the new person to refer when taking over). I'll treasure my time more with the frens in the company. It's also time for me to plan what I'm gonna do after i resign & start thinking of what my next carrer prospects are.
Though my final weeks were tough times, I still feel glad to have this ample time to do most of the things. So, in the end, it's not that long after all. If u still find it too long, you can use ya leave to offset it.
Hope it's of some consideration to you.
Good Luck!!! (kneel & bow)
我同意！两个月，也许是个不长不短刚刚好可以调整心态、确定目标的过渡期。所谓沉淀，就是把那些冲动的情绪分子沉淀下来，避免走错路后将来会后悔。是挺难熬的，但是我一定会让自己撑下去的。
ReplyDelete而且真的如您所说，我需要一段时间来理清很多东西。先不要说后事，前事我都还没搞定呢！我觉得有一点很重要的是，我们要时常 keep our mind open，不管是留还是走，最好给自己多一些 time allowance 考虑清楚，总之就是要 be mentally prepared 和把眼睛擦亮亮衡量天时地利人和之因素吧。
两个月，就当作是个蓄势待发的机会吧！
我保持沉默，因为学乖了。有些事说多了，是负担......
ReplyDelete还是小老鼠聪明，结果快一年了，我还停滞在这里。。。
ReplyDelete这两个月来我终于比较积极地发信，还取得了3 次面试的机会。发现其实 WS 的待遇算不错的，而且很stable ，只是没有发展空间。三次面试下来，我比较看清楚的是我需要更广阔、更有挑战性的新尝试。也许现在年轻一点，必须要更放得下所谓的 stability。
突然重新了解当初小老鼠放弃 Popular 的 Senior Marketing position 而选择 Broadcast Journalist 的决定。